A strong, independent woman


On twitter, people will often post or retweet a meme that says something they feel is particularly pertinent to them and say something along the lines of “I feel seen…” I must confess, that’s exactly how I felt when I read the current prompt on the ‘No True Way‘ site:

Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to a world free from those pressures.

In fact, that simple statement resonates so much that I almost feel I should print it out, frame it and hang it on a wall somewhere because, for me, there is so much truth in it.

In the “real world”, I am a mental health counsellor.  The people I deal with are often at the lowest point in their lives when I first meet them. The stories they tell are always raw and deeply personal and, all to frequently, border on the horrific. To say it is stressful is an understatement. In these current times, it has been even more so than usual.

But who cares for the carer? Who heals the healer? For me, my submission to Master C often falls into this space.

Through my submission I am able to free myself from the strains, stresses and anguishes that I have to contend with daily. I surrender control to Master C. I let Him choose what is appropriate, what I should and shouldn’t do, I free myself from the need to make decisions, to choose one path over another. His care, His direction, His support and, yes, sometimes His discipline help me remain balanced.

Master C knows when I need soothing words and to be held firmly yet tenderly in His arms. He also knows when what I need is to be firmly restrained and soundly thrashed. He balances my needs for passion, pleasure and pain, and wields them in ways that keep me centred. Master C has developed an instinct for knowing when I need to have my shoulders rubbed, or my neck grabbed, when I need His hands massaging my back, or the stinging bite of His belt on my arse. When we fuck, sometimes I want Him to kiss me and stroke my hair from my face, at other times I want to feel His hands tighten around my throat. Sometimes I need to be an active participant and sometimes I need to be bound and helpless, allowing myself to be subjected to whatever treatment Master C decides is appropriate.

Sometimes, what I really need, is for Master C to fuck and thrash my cares away. My submission to Him gives me this.

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5 thoughts on “A strong, independent woman

  1. David Mei April 6, 2021 / 10:59 am

    Yes! This is what my Kitten describes as well. An Emergency Room Physician outside the bedroom. My Kitten and Little in the bedroom. I am the one person in her life who loves her unconditionally and expects nothing from her but her love. In return I give her a safe place. I give her a retreat from her duties. Through bondage and impact play I get her to subspace and outside of her head.
    Our goal is to get our relationship to a point where it is not only in bed. But that’s on me continuing to find myself and reignite the leader within. Leading with mindful compassion. It’s a journey.
    I will share your words with her.
    Thank you.

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  2. Lilly April 6, 2021 / 3:38 pm

    I was worrying that you didn’t participate this week and was glad to see that now you did.
    I understand what you’re saying and am glad to see that you have found exactly what you need in your dom and your relationship.

    Lilly

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  3. Mòrag April 7, 2021 / 10:04 am

    Thank you. Life has been particularly hectic this past week or too, so not been able to devote as much time here as I would like. I am lucky to have found an arrangement that works so well for both of us as well as a partner/Master who understands my needs and attends to them so caringly.

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  4. Mòrag April 7, 2021 / 10:07 am

    It’s important to concentrate on what works for both of you as it is never a one way street and both the Dominant and the submissive have duties to themselves and each other in terms of providing care and support.
    Good luck on your journeys…😘

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  5. David Mei April 8, 2021 / 4:25 pm

    Absolutely! The give and take is a regular relationship and then some. I have found that D/s mindset has helped me be a better partner and helped me pay attention to those around me not only my partner. The whole family.
    Doesn’t stop me from being the selfish ass from time to time, but those spells have become less frequent. Thanks for sharing your journey.

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