A taste for things that come

I gave my first blow-job at the tender age of 14. It was kind of a special “present” to my then boyfriend on his 15th birthday. Despite have discussed the subject with one of my girlfriends who had had quite a bit of experience in the art of sucking cocks (note the plural), I really didn’t have much of a clue what I was doing; I sucked and licked and worked my lips up and down his shaft until, with very little in the way of warning, he blew his load in my mouth. Luckily for me, it was also my boyfriend’s first experience of a blow-job, so he had nothing to compare it with, but it was clear that he had enjoyed my attentions and, on the evidence of how wet my cunt was, I’d definitely enjoyed my part in the proceedings too. I’ve mentioned before that in the more than 30 years that have elapsed since that day, I’ve lost count of the number of cocks that I’ve had in my mouth, but that first one was the one that made me realise that sucking a guy off was just as much something for me as it was for the recipient.

One of the most important lessons that I’ve learned is that communication is key. If you want to give a cock a really good blow-job, or give a cunt a good tongue lashing, it’s listen to what the recipient wants and likes. No two cocks or cunts are identical in terms of what elicits the maximum amount of pleasure, so, if in doubt, ask. Also, listen; not just to what someone tells you in words, but also what their body tells you in terms of responses. Learn to identify what the gasps, sighs and moans mean, store away the things that made them flinch and shake. This applies equally to whether its a cock or a cunt that you are pleasuring. The more familiar you are with your partner’s body and how they respond to pleasure, the more you learn their sexual “tells”, the more you can concentrate on giving them the best head they’ve ever had.

Another thing I’ve learned, is that when it comes to licking a cunt, women aren’t intrinsically better at it than men. The idea behind this is that those of us with cunts know how we like to have them pleasured, so we should find it easier to pleasure others. This is, of course, nonsense. As I’ve written before, the only cunt whose responses I know with absolute certainty, is my own; and as I’ve already pointed out, what works for my cunt is not guaranteed to work for anyone else’s.  So, again, communication is key. Another tip I learned, was when having sex with another woman for the first time, try to arrange things so they go down on you first as they way they eat you will probably give you an indication of how they like to be eaten. Of course, if you go first, you’re the one giving tips and pointers to what you want when the time comes for the tables to be turned, so there is no right or wrong. The point is, the person who is feasting on your nether regions isn’t psychic, so unless there is a long familiarity with what you like, don’t be afraid to let them know. Help them to give you the tongue-lashing you want and need.

For me, as a submissive woman, one of the things I love about sucking cock is the sense of “empowerment” it gives me. When I’m sucking a cock, it is me that is doing, not being done to; I am giving them pleasure, my talents and abilities are going to be the reason they come, and their load of cum in my mouth is my reward for doing it to the best of my ability. Sucking cock is the way I give pleasure, rather than have it taken from me; I am providing pleasure, not being used for it. I suspect that this is the biggest reason for why I will try to find any excuse to end up with Master C’s in my mouth; I love being responsible for His orgasm and knowing that I am the reason for His climax.

Of course, sometimes, Master C will take His pleasure from my mouth; a mouth and throat is just as capable of being fucked as a cunt or arse. When Master C tips my head back and fucks me roughly in the throat, there is something about this that is deliciously filthy, that ticks my slut boxes, that reminds me that I am there for Him to be used

Over 30 years of using my mouth has taught me many things; how to use it to give pleasure, how to let it be used for pleasure, and how to fully enjoy both. Those are lessons that, in order to be Master C’s  slut and dutiful submissive, I definitely need to learn.

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14 thoughts on “A taste for things that come

    • Mòrag March 1, 2021 / 15:00

      I’m almost certain He would say that there is still plenty of room or improvement. There is no danger of Him having to retire His belt any time soon…😉


  1. Marie Rebelle March 2, 2021 / 15:38

    I enjoyed reading this, and it gave me some ideas for my first prompt of the meme at its new home. Here I was thinking to write about sucking a cock, but damn, it’s oral sex and I will definitely include some about licking a pussy too 😉
    ~ Marie

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    • Mòrag March 2, 2021 / 15:44

      Suck or lick, cock or cunt, it’s all there to be enjoyed to the full.

      Liked by 1 person

  2. lizblackx March 3, 2021 / 11:47

    I love how you included advice for both men and women, both giving and receiving 🙂


    • Mòrag March 3, 2021 / 14:34

      I think we all need to be open and alert to non-verbal communication; not least because it’s not polite to talk when we have our mouths full 🤣.

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  3. David Mei March 7, 2021 / 11:45

    Nicely phrased. I love feeling the effects I have on my Kitten’s body. I love the control of eliciting an orgasm from her. Almost more than I like receiving her mouth’s adoration. But ohhhh the pleasure of a good mouth. You nailed one of my favorite things, feeling out her non-verbal queues on what is needed this time. For not everything that is magical works the same every time. Well written. Thank you.

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    • Mòrag March 7, 2021 / 12:58

      It is definitely a case that even the right buttons sometimes need to be pushed in a different order to achieve the maximum effect. So glad you enjoyed this post.

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      • David Mei March 7, 2021 / 13:12

        It was a pleasure to read. You serve your Master well. He is a fortunate man. May your journey be fruitful and continue to be blessed.

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  4. DeviantSuccubus March 11, 2021 / 08:16

    This is such an informative post, thank you so much for sharing it! I must admit that I don’t get turned on by giving a blowjob. It gives me pleasure to be able to give pleasure but because I feel like I am the leading agent, I don’t feel submissive at all. I am all for being face fucked though, that tickles both my sexual and submissive sides.
    I think one thing that also needs to be pointed out is that not everyone loves or even enjoys receiving oral. I am one of those people. I absolutely loathe someone going down on me, I find it uncomfortable, I can’t relax and every time I just want it be over with.


    • Mòrag March 11, 2021 / 09:14

      Very good points. I’ve written it from my perspective as someone who absolutely loves it it all its forms. Some people don’t, and that’s fine too. There are enough other things that bring each of us pleasure that we can devote ourselves to those we enjoy and not waste time on those we don’t.


  5. May More July 13, 2021 / 10:35

    “For me, as a submissive woman, one of the things I love about sucking cock is the sense of “empowerment” it gives me”
    YES – i love that too with a blow job – of course a face fuck takes that power from u – but i like the chance to b in charge every so often and a BJ lets that happen


    • Mòrag NicEanraig July 14, 2021 / 09:15

      Absolutely agree. A face fuck is simply Him using a different hole for His gratification; a blow-job is me using my mouth for both His, and my pleasure.

      Liked by 1 person

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