One of the most important things about being in a D/s relationship is trust. In their 2000 song, Affirmation, Savage Garden wrote the line:
I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
If anything sums up my relationship with Master C, this does.
I am most certainly not monogamous. As I have mentioned before, I am free to fuck other guys, so long as I accept the consequences of my actions.
By way of example, on the night of my work Christmas party, I was under strict instructions from Master C to “enjoy myself” and, it’s fair to say that I most definitely did. I hadn’t gone out that night looking for a threesome with two guys, but when the opportunity presents itself, what slut is going to refuse? I certainly wasn’t going to. Refusing a threesome would probably have earned me a stricter punishment than accepting one.
Of course, being the slut I am, I accepted the threesome and the consequences that would come with it; namely a thorough thrashing from Master C’s belt.
A slut’s punishment should always be proportionate to the severity of her transgression. I had earned a thorough thrashing and for Master C to have given me anything less would have “devalued” my actions and undermined His authority.
And that is another area where trust in a D/s relationship is important. A sub trusts her Master to treat her firmly, yet fairly; punishments must be proportionate to the transgression and rewards appropriate to the service given.